Correction, you don’t have to be tiny, to look good, however, you may want to find clothing that is flattering, and doesn’t make you look like you are nine months and expecting. Cool shades though.
Hi, that’s me in the photo and I look beautiful. I don’t know if you’ve ever actually seen a pregnant woman (it sounds like you haven’t). But I think it’s fairly obvious that I’m just fat.
I’m not offended or hurt by what you are saying, because I live a charmed life and I am loved (maybe your words could hurt me if I somehow didn’t know that I was attractive or desirable), and it doesn’t matter if someone on the internet thinks my outfit is unflattering. I am bothered by your need to say nasty things about other women as if you think there isn’t an actual real person who is capable of reading your words.
What difference does it really make to you what I wear/what my body looks like, and why do you feel the need to be critical of the bodies and appearances of other people?
Mostly I’m just embarrassed for you that you’re so rude. I can’t imagine how awful it must be to know that you’re a total dickhead. The guilt and shame alone must be agonizing.Still one of the best things I’ve read on here. And the girl’s super cute.
Wow, OP’s a condescending asshole. Honey, they weren’t trying to insult you; they weren’t calling you fat or ugly. They even complimented you. What they were doing was giving critique. Okay, yes, they suggested you look like you’re expecting in that skirt, bu honestly, you do, and it’s hardly the worst insult in the world. But the point is, they were saying that some clothes flatter some body shapes while others don’t, and your skintight pencil skirt doesn’t look that crash hot on you. That’s not saying skinny women like me look good in everything; skinny women look pretty crap in floaty fabrics, and having tiny boobs means there’s a lot of things I look terrible in. But that person just pointed out that there’s probably something more flattering for your beautiful figure than a skirt that makes you stick out in the wrong places. Are you just so keen to justify your body and scream at potential haters that you’ll rip into anyone who doesn’t quite agree with you? Yes, you are beautiful, and it’s great that you agree that you are - body confidence is fantastic and I wish more people had it. But your reaction was way disproportionate to the amount of actual hate you got in the other person’s comment. Grow up.
If someone told me I looked 9 months expecting in something I was wearing, I would say the same thing. Who are they to criticize? It’s their body and if that’s the way she wants to present herself, then it’s all her. Why must we be so critical towards everything? Why do we have to point out what we don’t like? Hey, your boobs like flat as fuck in that shirt, but hey nice hair. No, just because you compliment someone doesn’t open the door to say something negative. That’s not okay. I don’t know why people feel the need to point out flaws in another person’s outfit. They know what they look like, I’m sure they looked in a mirror before they left the house and thought, “well this looks acceptable,” or better than that. It’s their decision. They wear it for them, not for others to say hey, I don’t like that.
“OmGZZZZZzz they said you look pregnant as a FAVOUR GAWD. Skinny girls (LIKE MEEEEE) dot look good in floaty fabrics lolz”
what an asshole fuck. Wear what you want regardless of shape. fuck da police.I cannot believe that this photo is still making the rounds.
Do you people HONESTLY believe, that after 30 years as a woman I somehow have NO IDEA what the conventional notion of “flattering” is? I mean, really. Do you think that I didn’t notice that I was fat that day and wore that outfit thinking I actually looked thin? Do you think I’ve never picked up a women’s magazine, had an eating disorder, hid my body in oversized t-shirts? Really? A 30 year old woman with an interest in fashion living in North America has never read a fashion magazine or internalized stupid ideas of how her body should look? Really?
It just goes to show you unless you want flack, you can’t be visible, you can’t let your guard down. As I said before, this photo was taken of me when I was on vacation in Seattle and I was having a great day and the man who I am now engaged to thought I looked pretty and took a photo of me so we could remember our trip. I brazenly, shamelessly uploaded it to flickr and look at it now.
Does a woman who is just enjoying herself on her vacation really deserved to be so harshly criticized for her clothing choices just because she happened to share those photos with the internet?
I am very sorry about the thin women who have reblogged this saying that even they wouldn’t wear something like that. That’s too bad. And I mean that, it makes me sad.
You and me and every other girl looking at this is worth more than just trying to artfully make themselves appear as conventionally attractive as possible at all times.This ^^^
Seriously? This girl is fierce and I’d tell her any day of the week and twice on Sunday how hot she is.
(Source: cardamine)
